Each of us is dearly loved by God! When our marriages are working well God's love for us and our love for him and each other flows out into the world.
A healthy marriage helps us to venture out into the world feeling competent to handle the challenges that life has to offer. When we feel secure in our relationship we know deep down that we are held in the heart and mind of another who truly has our best interest at heart. When we feel secure in our relationship we can to take the day's challenges and share them with our spouse and know that most times we will be met with genuine caring and love. We also can feel confident that we can navigate conflicts in our relationship respectfully. This takes work! Intentional work!
Unfortunately, many couples get caught up in patterns of pursuit and withdraw which get in the way of actually solving conflicts. Leaving us feeling not loved, not seen, and alone.
If your marriage isn’t where you want it to be and you need help getting out of those exhausting conflicts that seem to just go round and round, we would be glad to work with you. We’ll work together to help you get out of the damaging patterns and miscommunications that occur in times of conflict and help you move into a more secure space with each other where you are able to love and respect each other more deeply.
We offer a free 20 minute phone consultation to see if we would be a good fit with each other. Give us a call at 717.654.2959 or email Stacy at stacy@immanuelcenter.net or Randy at randy@immanuelcenter.net to set up a consultation.